I have long thought that to stop a societal problem, it's essential to actively stop perpetuating it. For example: if you want to stop antisemitism, don't be an anti-semite. Want to end racism? Be anti-racist. My father was a racist and was taught certain things. When I I realized how much I may have hurt marginalized people I learned that I didn't have to perpetuate the problem. The #MeToo movement was a clarion call for men to stop abusing women. Makes sense right?
The same thing happens with totalitarian governments. (free link)As the Taliban starts enforcing draconian new rules on women in Afghanistan, it has also begun to target a group that didn’t see tight restrictions on them coming: Afghan men.
Women have faced an onslaught of increasingly severe limits on their personal freedom and rules about their dress since the Taliban seized power three years ago. But men in urban areas could, for the most part, carry on freely.
The past four weeks, however, have brought significant changes for them, too. New laws promulgated in late August mandate that men wear a fist-long beard, bar them from imitating non-Muslims in appearance or behavior, widely interpreted as a prohibition against jeans, and ban haircuts that are against Islamic law, which essentially means short or Western styles. Men are now also prohibited from looking at women other than their wives or relatives.
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“If men had raised their voices, we might also be in a different situation now,” said a male resident of the capital, Kabul, who like others interviewed for this story spoke on the condition of anonymity or that only their first names be used due to fears of drawing unwanted scrutiny from the regime. “Now, everyone is growing a beard because we don’t want to be questioned, humiliated,” he said.
Now that men are feeling the consequences, now they care?
What's happening in Afghanistan should be a warning for everyone in this country. Abortion and IVF bans will lead to vasectomy bans. They are effing with our votes right under our eyes. January 6 was just a start.
Yes, it can happen here. and it can happen to you. We're all in this together, let's act like it and make sure it is stopped.
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Raine